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Buriram Province - General Category => Gay People in Buriram => Topic started by: Admin on December 12, 2010, 09:45:45 AM
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Is Attraction To Ladyboys A Gay Thing, Or Not? Ladyboy attraction survey
*I found this topic in another forum and thought its funny and interesting, not my thing for sure. stop1
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100% Gay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I think 9999.9% of lady-boys look like men so I don't want to have sex with them as I am Heterosexual but there are to odd few that are so attractive you would have to be gay to find them not attractive. confused1
Check out this site with Photos of Treechada Marnyaporn.......if you find her/him unattractive then I think you are gay. smilenod
http://www.missladyboys.com/webboard/lofiversion/index.php?t7049.html (http://www.missladyboys.com/webboard/lofiversion/index.php?t7049.html)
I post on quite a lot of forums and quite a few guys banter about whether you sleep with lady-boys or not ,I think this is mainly because they fear that the thought of them finding lady-boys attractive threatens they own masculinity, so use it as a derogatory form of banter .
When you go to Pattaya there are 1000's of Lady-boys but I have never had sex with any of them,I'm not saying it hasn't crossed my mind but up until now I have resisted so may be I haven't got the gay gene . I don't think on a forum like BE you are going to get many honest replies to this tread,just a lot of joking and p*ss taking because most men that do find lady boys attractive will not admit it because of fear of ridicule from other's. Already Admin has said "not my thing for sure" but he must be a little curious or he wouldn't have started this thread. thumbup
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Boloa, I'm a very open minded person but I can't see myself with a ladyboy, even if made surgery and exact like a lady, also, I have never mistaken to believe ladyboy is a real lady, its something in their eyes/look/behaviour (even if not extreme feminine same many ladyboys).
In the past I almost tried but it felt so weird I just dropped the idea. 2guys
I also think, that if you like man, get a man, if lady, get a lady.
but to get something in the middle is beyond my ability to understand, its bizarre.
But again, each person to himself, some will enjoy it and I can't judge them. spiral
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When Jingthing opened this thread on TV, I refused to take part. Human sexuality is too complex to be covered by simplistic questions of this kind.
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I don't think on a forum like BE you are going to get many honest replies to this tread,just a lot of joking and p*ss taking
Rather presumptuous for a NEWBIE !
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When Jingthing opened this thread on TV, I refused to take part. Human sexuality is too complex to be covered by simplistic questions of this kind.
I think you are on the money Mike. smilenod
On an another local forum a new members said he was coming to this area to live and would like to met up with a few people and members to talk about the local area.He then said he was gay. WHY. ?????. Do I tell people I am straight when I join a forum.!!!!!! What people do and who they sleep with is up to them and I would never judge a person on his or her sexual bias, only on their views and their personality.
At the same time I agree with some of admin's point and I myself could never see myself with a Lady-boy but that's not saying saying I don't find some of them sexually attractive ( IE Treechada Marnyaporn).
Nookiebear thinks its 100% gay( It only gay if somefinds out Nookie ..LOL.) and Dave the dude has no opinion apart from having a dig at me,which is par for the course for a guy like him... biggrinbar
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I think ladyboys are for gays with personality problems.
They can't face the fact they are gays and need to be with men and in the same time can't face their unexplained confused4 attraction to women.
so they find comfort with ladyboys living in denial they aren't gays!!!!
Funny or not? you decide.
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Before you can post a sensible answer to this question (quite apart from the invidious stereotyping involved), you have to define what you mean by 'ladyboy', a very ambiguous term in Thailand. It can mean, (1) a transsexual (pre or post-op), (2) a transvestite (who may or may not be thinking of having a physical sex change), (3) an effeminate gay (this is how most Thais use the word), or even (4) any gay. The flamboyant goys you see in the night club areas may be either of the first three types, or somebody having fun. It goes without saying that the intermediates between these types are numerous. And we haven't even mentioned shemales.
Now start thinking.
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When Jingthing opened this thread on TV, I refused to take part. Human sexuality is too complex to be covered by simplistic questions of this kind.
I think you are on the money Mike. smilenod
On an another local forum a new members said he was coming to this area to live and would like to met up with a few people and members to talk about the local area.He then said he was gay. WHY. ?????. Do I tell people I am straight when I join a forum.!!!!!! What people do and who they sleep with is up to them and I would never judge a person on his or her sexual bias, only on their views and their personality.
At the same time I agree with some of admin's point and I myself could never see myself with a Lady-boy but that's not saying saying I don't find some of them sexually attractive ( IE Treechada Marnyaporn).
Nookiebear thinks its 100% gay( It only gay if somefinds out Nookie ..LOL.) and Dave the dude has no opinion apart from having a dig at me,which is par for the course for a moron like him... biggrinbar
The guy in the other forum probably was nervous about how gays might be received here. After all, most people, rightly or wrongly, stereotype farangs living in Isaan as those who have married bar-girls. You and I know that is far too simplistic (I like that word!). I too am up front about being gay, partly to avoid silly questions about my wife, and partly because I feel people have to accept me as I am; if they don't, that's their problem. I'm happy to say I have had no problem about it here. But there's enough anti-gay prejudice in the world for us to feel slightly on the defensive about it.
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And we haven't even mentioned shemales.
Now start thinking.
Haven't we?!
Let's try to make it simple.
This is how I see it: fighting1
Ladyboy = shemale.
IE: On female hormones, trying to change their body, before/after surgery, dress like woman.
Gay = Man.
IE: Might act in effeminate way more or less, but still a man.
Agree?
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I make it even more simple..
penis=man
vagina = woman
If you put your hand up her/his skirtand you feel a penis and you don't mind, you're gay.
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I make it even more simple..
penis=man
vagina = woman
If you put your hand up her/his skirtand you feel a penis and you don't mind, you're gay.
What if they are a post-op lady-boy and have had their penis removed and a false vagina made. Are you gay as they are still a man on their ID card or are you straight has they don't have a penis even though they used to be a man ???
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I never check ID's before I grap under skirts. winkboy
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Who really cares?
I like women and there seem to be enough in Thailand to see my days out! If you are Gay and like men, or if you like ladyboys, then fine. It's your choice. You are accountable to nobody
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We seem to have some closet gays opening their doors,,,,,,,,FFS a man is a man no matter how he portrays himself & if you fancy fucking arpound with one then YOU are GAY
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Shemale, as far as I understand it, means a hermaphrodite.... rare, but not unknown. I heard there was a vogue in hi-so in Bangkok a few years ago for parties with a shemale stripper... and the guests could touch the relevant bits. Hearsay only; I don't vouch for it! Your simplification, Admin, quite simply destroys your topic; what you perceive to be a ladyboy does not equate with how other people see it.
Spare a thought for the decent people who find themselves sexually disabled in this way; they are people too, with hopes and fears, joys and sorrows like the rest of us. I've known a few, but the famous example is Jan Morris (born James), the journalist, who had the op in her 50s, and wrote about what she felt.
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We seem to have some closet gays opening their doors
OK , to find out who they are....Who found Treechada Marnyaporn unattractive.. love6..... biggreen
BTW MIke ..Lady GaGa is supposed to be an hermaphrodite . She has a love tunnel and a disco stick confused1
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I just googled Treechada Marnyaporn. Wow.
I for one definately found her attractive (even If a bit on the pale side for me).
On the question of 'Would I ?'. If I didn't know she was/is (whatever?) a man beforehand, then I probably would.
If I woke up in the morning to find out she was a kathoey/TS (whatever?), then I would probably find it funny and keep it to myself. This would never occur now ofcourse because I'm married .. ahmm mhihi
I think each person (man or Woman) should be allowed to act as gay or straight as they want, and if that is attractive to some people then, each to their own.
You would have to admit that some (only some) of the kathoeys you would see in Pattaya, etc. are extremely sexy looking. My wife even thinks so. But by the reasoning of some in this forum, that would make her a closet lesbian ? confused1 Well... hears hoping giggle.
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I have a mental picture of what 2 hermaphrodites can do for each other simultaneously!. Certainly more than gays or lesbians.
Now doubt Boloa will send a suitable link!
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Link being sent as we talk :-)
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Lots of gays !!! surprising considering the fact we have opened this board with not much responds at first.
Open the closets!!! Don't hide behind, its for sissies. gayparade
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LOTS of Gays ? .. only Isanbirder said he was gay, who else ?
So, do as Admin suggests is his last post and '..don't hide your behinds in the closet, open them up ..' ..... Eh, I mean emm ..... ashamed1 whistle
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LOTS of Gays ? .. only Isanbirder said he was gay, who else ?
So, do as Admin suggests is his last post and '..don't hide your behinds in the closet, open them up ..' ..... Eh, I mean emm ..... ashamed1 whistle
Is Attraction To Ladyboys when NOT KNOWING its a ladyboy is a Gay thing?
If you straight and just when you get to bed you discover its a ladyboy and continue the action is a Gay thing? :D :D
I have a friend who took a girl in Koh Samui, anyway, they got into the action (after surgery) than he feels its weird, so he ask her (in the middle hahaha) she told him so he stopped taking girls till the end of his trip.
OK, it was just a story.... stop1
Enjoy life. thumbup
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Gay, Straight, bisexual, transgender; what does it matter ?
All Sex is either recreational (for the fun of it) or procreative (making babies)
The original purpose of sex is to make babies. It evolved into something that was also enjoyable.
So, If you look at it purely scientifically, when you are not trying to make babies, then ALL other sex is basically masterbation. So why would it matter WHERE you have your w@nk ?, and why would it matter who 'helps' you with the mechanics of it, if it is only for fun ?
If you are not trying to reproduce then you are having recreational sex and All you are doing is 'unloading' for the fun of it.
As for me personally I am .. prosexual.. meaning I'm a fan of sex, I think its great . bravo1 pompom bananadance love4
If I was bisexual I would give that a good try too and with my handsome good looks no-one, male or female would be safe. icon_heart Big Kiss
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I saw this list......Its not gay IF...... confused1
#1 your balls don't touch
#2 you high five afterwords
#3 you keep your eyes closed
#4 you slip and fall
#5 it's your first time
#6 one of you is dressed like a girl
#7 you keep your socks on.
#8 you pray afterwards
#9 you regret it afterwards.
#10 you were the big spoon.
#11 you don't look him in the eyes.
#12 you are wearing plaid
#13 you don't touch their pubes
#14 you shut your eyes
#15 he's asleep
#16 You do it through a hole in the sheet
#17 you only lick the tip
#18 you were too drunk to remember the next day
#18 there is no poetry involved
#19 you're married
#20 you cry afterwards
I hope this helps anybody who is not sure.... friendlypeople
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GAY.
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GAY.
Is that an admission Ray... :o
DOH!! ....Am I using banter to cover up my fear that I have found some Lady-boys attractive :wub: and could be turning a bit wiffy whistle winkboy
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GAY.
Is that an admission Ray... :o
DOH!! ....Am I using banter to cover up my fear that I have found some Lady-boys attractive :wub: and could be turning a bit wiffy whistle winkboy
No Alan - It was an answer to the opening question ! punk
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GAY.
Is that an admission Ray... :o
DOH!! ....Am I using banter to cover up my fear that I have found some Lady-boys attractive :wub: and could be turning a bit wiffy whistle winkboy
No Alan - It was an answer to the opening question ! punk
How do you know, CC? Just because you're not gay, and you are not attracted to ladyboys, it proves nothing. There are quite a few other people out there.
As I've indicated in previous posts, I just think the question is so ambiguous that it's merely silly. (And yet I go on posting! Why?)
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GAY.
Is that an admission Ray... :o
DOH!! ....Am I using banter to cover up my fear that I have found some Lady-boys attractive :wub: and could be turning a bit wiffy whistle winkboy
No Alan - It was an answer to the opening question ! punk
I love it when you go into great depths to explain your views,you can be so opinionated sometimes Ray :-)
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Maybe it just depends on what part of the lady-boy you like,if you like the lady-part you're not gay, you like the boy-part you're defenitely gay.
Actually I don't care what you are as aman, as long as I don't have to have sex with you. togetherhug
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Well what an interesting topic (NOT) this has been done to death on so many forums, with many photo’s; homophobic comments; flaming; attempts to get the board higher on “Google†and other search engine by using the phrase “Ladyboyâ€; plus lots and lots of other unadulterated C**p.
Sorry but I was of the opinion that this forum was a little more mature than that, let’s move on and try to elevate the standard here, after all, we are all adults.
P.S. This was posted after several bottles of LEO, by hey, Mai Phen Rai.
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HOWAY MAN !
Whey aye hinny, now ya talkin!
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I saw this list......Its not gay IF...... confused1
#1 your balls don't touch
#2 you high five afterwords
#3 you keep your eyes closed
#4 you slip and fall
#5 it's your first time
#6 one of you is dressed like a girl
#7 you keep your socks on.
#8 you pray afterwards
#9 you regret it afterwards.
#10 you were the big spoon.
#11 you don't look him in the eyes.
#12 you are wearing plaid
#13 you don't touch their pubes
#14 you shut your eyes
#15 he's asleep
#16 You do it through a hole in the sheet
#17 you only lick the tip
#18 you were too drunk to remember the next day
#18 there is no poetry involved
#19 you're married
#20 you cry afterwards
I hope this helps anybody who is not sure.... friendlypeople
So according to rule #6 doing ladyboys isn't Gay.
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Re rule #6
If one were "doing" a ladyboy it could be assumed that at the time neither was DRESSED!
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Re rule #6
If one were "doing" a ladyboy it could be assumed that at the time neither was DRESSED!
One may have a good point there. Touché swordfight